This is the before shot...


the during

the after. The scratches are from all the attempts at getting the stuff off. Who knew vinegar was the secret.

I'm the one that writes my own story!!!!




Ever felt embarrassed after someone rebuffed your invitation to go for coffee? Ever felt hurt when you opened yourself up to another person and they didn’t react the way that you had hoped? Ever felt scared for any number of reasons?
Congratulations! You’re alive. And growing, too! If we never take a chance, if we never stretch ourselves, there are two things that we can be sure of. One is that we will never feel hurt or embarrassed or scared. The other is that we will stagnate. Safe in our comfort zone, we will find in time that comfort zone has become a prison. We have dealt ourselves a life sentence of "safety." Yet safety equals stagnation.
Be embarrassed! Be hurt! Be frightened! The rewards of growth and change are permanently rewarding. Slowly, through taking chances on people and situations, we mold ourselves into the person we want to be. We grow. We learn. We change for the better. The end result outweighs the temporary pain encountered on the journey.
Take a chance on life today.
It all started almost 18 years ago (in August) with a little post it that read "Your the peanut in my butter" since then Steve and I have exchanged hundreds of these little "I Love You's". I have saved every single one and I think he has too. This is what makes things count. The little things he does. He helps clean house and do laundry when he is sure he wont shrink any of my clothes. He cooks dinner sometimes and lets me sleep when I have had a bad night. He works so hard every day in pain and still finds the energy to help out even though I really don't need it most of the time. He can be very difficult to live with but it is easy to live with when he makes me feel so loved!!!!!!!